So for those who found love before this dating generation or you finally found one during this generation, I hope you are very thankful that you don’t need to suffer in this cruel dating world anymore.
Every peso we spend on looking for love...
...is every peso you start saving towards the future you're trying to build.
Every minute we spend on determining whether the person in front of us is the one...
...is every minute you add to the memories you have with your lover.
Every gift we receive would form an uncertainty if we should cherish them...
...is every gift you receive will be wholeheartedly cherished forever.
Every picture we had with a prospective someone would suddenly go to delete or trash file if things ended...
...is every picture you had would be placed securely in your computer hard drives.
Every memory we try to create with a person we’re seeing only to be forcibly discarded if things fall apart...
...is every memory you create with your family and place them in a sacred part of your life knowing that nobody could take it away from you.
Every flaw that was highlighted to us that’s why we’re still single...
...is every flaw you have that is unconditionally loved and accepted by your partner.
Every lesson we learn could only be applied to the next person we meet next...
...is every lesson you learned would improve your relationship with your partner.
Every rejection we received from the people we went out with...
...is every “thank God I found you” to your partner that you don’t need to be rejected by someone anymore.
Every tear we get from heartbreaks...
...is every tear you get from your created family’s happy milestones.
Every what ifs we have if we could still find our eternal happiness romantically...
...is every what ifs you have if you guys never met and you are both blessed it didn’t happen that way.
AND
Every breath of relief that we have that we didn’t end up with someone that put our life in chaos...
...is every breath of relief that whenever there's a chaos in your life, you are assured that you have such a wonderful partner beside you.
I could have mentioned a lot of everys as there are too much to mention, but I guess all we need is compassion and acknowledgement that today’s dating generation is very brutal, you don’t need to compare your time to our time.
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